Hi Jess

What he is doing isn’t moral and my concern is that it is a lie. He didn’t hurt her, he hurt you his wife. Any hurt to an “ex-girlfriend” is minor in comparison to what he has done and continues to do to you.

The moral thing to do is commit to his wife.

Sadly, there is one other reason why people admit to cheating. When they want out of a relationship and he is already hinting at that.

It was never your decision whether you get to save your marriage. What you can decide is if you would like to protect yourself.