Hello Jill,

I was in a similar situation to you around 15 years ago.  He didn’t give me closure, but eventually I found my own.  The most important thing is to never go back.  I can tell you from experience that it gets worse if you do.  In the end, I felt I was losing my mind.

At the end of the day, one of the best things in my life was the end of that relationship even though it didn’t feel that way at the time.  I believe he was a genuine narcissist.