I was completely ,totally and loyally in love for 25 years with my husband and then I met someone else and wasn’t. I am still in the marriage and am so confused how I could have gone from all these years of love and not imagining him next to me forever and beyond to me wanting to be with someone else. We were inseparable , two peas in a pod and I still love hanging out with him but I don’t love him like that anymore and do not feel loved the way he other person make me feel loved. And if I leave will it just happen again ?