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I’ll try. Not that upset anymore…I am pretty sure I know why this happened and it has nothing to do with what she said, she’s upset I go months not keeping in touch with her and she’s tired of me coming in and out of her life when she just wants me in it. Like I said, she’s gotten upset I go months not “keeping in touch”, but I vanish because she doesn’t do anything, she can text or call too but she never does and expects me to do it all. I CAN’T DO IT ALL!!! she once said “I message you when you dissapear” and when I said I’ll talk to you next summer one time (it would have been like 11 months) she said “if that’s what you want..i’ll be around just message me”.
Like I said, it has nothing to do with the filler fluff she posted, it’s because I don’t keep in touch anymore and that message of not wanting to hang out with her and see you in the summer was the last straw, I guess she had an emotional reaction to it and had a talk with someone on what to do and there was an agreement to let me go. She could not do it via phone because it was too painful for her so a text and block was the easiest thing to do and she can run away like she always does when a problem arises. She should have told me “I can’t be friends with you if you are always going to vanish”, instead she did nothing and this happened and I presume it was really hard for her because that 1 summer and how close we became when her and her guy split.
I lost a friend for a really dumb reason, but oh well she done for good.