Dear miyoid:

Happy Wednesday to you too, and thank you!

“I actually feel like I can enjoy life when I can feel his love…  I don’t feel alone with my current boyfriend. I can feel loved enough“- I genuinely feel very good reading this, knowing your past struggles with feeling loved. This is why I say that this relationship is healthy for you.

“He is scared that we would cheat on each other or it’ll be hard and we would hate that we tried it, lots of insecurities I suppose. But I have similar insecurities as well in different subjects“- I suppose the fact that you are both similarly insecure makes the two of you compatible.

“We haven’t been seeing each other for days now and I wanted to also give him time so that he could enjoy his time with his family“- you giving him space indicates how much mentally healthier you are, good to read this!

“My sister is giving hard time to my mom and me as well, since she wants attention…She complains that she’s alone, forgetting that she never allows anybody to make her happy or even grateful for anything….  I hope that I was clear enough to express myself, it seemed a bit vague, sorry about that“- you were not vague at all: you were very clear. I see no point in giving your sister more time and attention because she is too absorbed in hurt and anger to be able to benefit from more time and attention given to her by you or by your mother.

anita