Dear Lola:

I will be able to reply more thoroughly later, maybe in as long as in 14 hours, but for now: like I said, what I presented to you in my previous post is a theory, an effort to explain something based on true principles, but the content of the theory is not necessarily true.

“I just get more and more confused as to how my brother came to be like this“- one of the true principles on which my theory was based is that children are not born… morally defected, unempathetic or sadistic: inclined to enjoy watching someone suffer and/ or die.

“She is involved, insightful and actively loving… She has very high emotional intelligence“- and yet she has no idea why her son is… an odd fish, not a single clue?

I was wondering about your other two brothers, about why they are not involved with the family and how they are doing. You don’t have to answer any of my questions of course, only if you want to keep looking into things.

anita