Dear Ik09:

I know that I want to reply to you in the morning when I am not as tired as I am now, but for now: I don’t want people to be cruel to you anymore. The two instances of cruelty I mentioned in my last post, these anger me. It is not right for a man (no matter his reasons, no  matter what he is suffering from) to be cruel to a woman the way these two men were. I mean, how dare this last man tell you that he is not sexually attracted to you, and to say it after he cheated on you?  What possible benefit is there in saying (the italicized): it can only hurts you, and in no way can it help you. WHY WOULD HE SAY THAT? Shame is on him!

anita