Dear kajal:

What is clear to me is that you indeed feel that you “love him so much“, and that you wish that you were together with him.  His mother does not want him to be with you and he listens to her. I don’t think that there is anything that you can do about either her position or about him caring about her position. (There is no person more powerful over a boy than his mother because she was the one there with him when he was a baby and a boy, there during his young, formative years).

It is time to accept and grieve the loss of your relationship. Love is still possible for you and it will happen for you, just not with him. Can you accept the ending of this relationship, as painfully as it is?

anita