Dear Anita,

I’m thinking about cancelling spending time with him tonight. To a certain extent I know what he is going to say- he will post a facebook picture this time like he did in May but he will not in the future unless I say something. He tends to need pushed with things.

He will say he’s not ready to have the kids meet and agree that we are not at place where we are in love.

Regarding the expenses part I’m very hesitant to bring up that subject.

Lindsey