Dear arabella:

So you are not at all worried that any of the wedding guests will tell your boyfriend or mention it in his presence that you and your ex were having so much fun together? I mean, your boyfriend knows about your ex, and that you spent time with him during the  wedding, does he?

And about having wanted to tell your ex your truth, and freeing yourself from this truth during the wedding and/ or during texting later that night, the truth was that your sex life with him was irreplaceable?

You wrote earlier today regarding your ex:  “I don’t think I’ll ever have that kind of feeling with anyone else again“, and in your most recent post, you wrote regarding your ex: “I don’t think I have ‘special feelings’ towards him that I don’t have towards my now boyfriend“. Do you see a contradiction here?

anita