Hi Anita,

Sorry I haven’t seen the post for so long, was really busy doing work.  International trip has been pretty easy here as well so I have been traveling quite a bit for work and also I’m planning to see Angkor Wat in Cambodia soon. So excited!! My first time in Cambodia and I was reading some infos, the sites is so large, best to spend 3 days there so we can see sunrise and sunsets too, and the city is also quite gorgeous.

My dating life has been pretty stable recently. He’s now in Europe, but he have made plans to travel back to where I am now to spend more times together again. I’m really amazed of the consistency that he gave me every day too. We text everyday and without failed we talk on VC everyweek. He never give me any reason to doubt him too, which as an anxious type, I really appreciate that.

We had a few ‘small’ fights and disagreement about how to communicate to each other, which I think it’s pretty normal. Before we agreed to go on LDR, we already talked about it as well, I think it’s just the matter of how each of you set expectations and show your partner what you want. Showing your standard and your boundaries is not a turn-off, it is really powerful. And him, how open he is to discussing what comfortable or not for him is showing emotional maturity as well.

I’m happy we’re gonna meet again, and we gonna spend time together, but at the same time I’m a bit anxious, it’s nothing about the relationship, it’s totally on my insecurities. Like is he gonna bailed last minutes and cancel? Will like me as much again when we meet? Will he get bored without his community/friends? etc ( I know it’s dumb to think about something like that).. But I’m sure it’ll go away as time goes by, telling myself to focus enjoying the moment instead of focusing on the useless anxious voice in the back if my mind.

How about you? How are you? I hope things are well and good over wherever you are!!

June