Dear Quala:

I will do my best to answer your question when I understand the situation better:

“There are so many times that he is super close to women, that their closeness is more than a girlfriend“-

(1) You wrote this sentence in the present tense (are, is)- is the above situation true when he was in high school and now, that he is in college?

(2) Can you describe what “super close” looks like, sounds like (what did you observe)?

(3) Would any closeness between your boyfriend and other women (like his friends in college) be okay with you, and if so, what kind of closeness would be okay with you?

anita