Dear anita,

I’m still digesting the long explanation u sent me in the previous thread, i wanna understand it slowly…

Do u have a more frontal tips anita?” – what do you mean by frontal tips?

= I mean like a more direct tips from ur personal opinion rather than general opinion as a neutral.

Aside from the previous threads,

So recently I’m trying to get close to a girl from social media… so she’s selling a homemade mooncake by promoting it on social media….

We’ve been following each other for a year but never texts each other, and that was the first time i text her….

So i’m trying to get close to her buy buying her mooncake, but then as always i did a mistake….

When it’s obviously a “homemade” mooncake… i initiated the conversation with her by asking “is the cake homemade?”
Sounds really stupid right. I just gave her a stupid first impression… and she might know that i’m just pretending to buy that mooncake to get close to her…

And then i ask her what flavor of mooncake is in that pic? Then she told me the flavor and eventually i paid for that mooncake, i’m going to pick up that mooncake in her house on thursday…. And meeting her for the first time…..

I just cant believe i did that mistake, i really want to hit the wall again. Like why do i keep making the same mistakes again and again when i’ve planned it for a long time….. i hate it.
I worry that with that stupid first impression, i’ve already reduced my chances because i’m sure when she saw me for the first time later on, it’ll be another weak impression due to my appearance and height…..

Idk how to fix this…. It feels really messed up….

I feel like screaming….. how can this slow brain of mine keep doing this to myself…. Like why??