Dear Eric:

“I expect it to happen that way too”– then visualize the expected uneventful event, see it in your mind’s eye so that you mentally get used to it before it takes place physically. Visualize the expressions on your face, the words you will say… mentally prepare and practice for two scenarios: (1) she appears indifferent and uninterested in you, (2) she shows some interest in you.

“What would be her impression of me, as I’ve ruined my first impression“- generally, a second impression can be stronger than first, it happens.

“Also I plan to text her again to get to know her when i get back…“- it will be easier to text than to talk, so this is the easier part.

anita