Dear Dan:

“Was there a lack of communication?  For sure there was… We had a good relationship and something happened and I don’t know what”,

“I love my wife my than anything… The feelings I have for my wife is unconditional love. I want her to be happy and I tried to do that. I did a lot of good things. I was good with the kids and I was good to her. And I will always be good to her and I will never hurt her”-

– like I wrote to you earlier, Dan: you are a good man and your love for your wife is admirable. If there is a remedy to the marriage, I would imagine that it would be better communication. It is a shame that marriage counseling was an idea that didn’t come to fruition. A capable couple counselor would have taught the two of you, in the context of ongoing therapy, how to communicate well with each other.

I am wishing you the best!

anita