Dear thedifferentgamer0:

“He told me he didn’t feel connected to me and I find it so hard to believe considering we talked all the time and engaged in such good conversations“- reads like you did connect but for some reason (not the reason he gave you) he decided to end the relationship before meeting in-person.

Once people decided to end relationships, many will give any reason that’s convenient, a reason that will not require explaining or negotiating.

There could be any one of multiple possible real reasons for his decision. Your guessing is better than mine  because you know more about him.

(I hope to read back from you. I will soon be away from the computer for a few hours).

anita