Dear Katrine Nielsen:

Your situation had me thinking earlier of the term analysis-paralysis, which means that in a situation where there is a lot of uncertainty, some people (more than others) tend to overanalyze and overthink the situation so much and for so long, that.. no action is taken. Like you wrote in your most recent post, and I agree: “better get it over with“, better shake off that paralysis and take the action (sending him a written message), an action that you considered taking for the last two weeks.

Remember that it is most important that you express yourself honestly and simply-  regardless of how he will react. No matter what you write to him, no matter how careful, you cannot predict or guarantee that he will react the way you want him to react. His behavior is out of your control.

anita