Dear Caroline:

I am so glad to read back from you! I want to reply further when I am not as tired as I am now. It may be not before Tuesday morning (in about 15-16 hours from now). For now, I want to comment on this: “I gave myself time because I did not know how to respond. I was looking for solutions“- there are no easy and fast solutions: it will take months and years to come up with (imperfectly actualized) solutions, so please be patient and prepare for the long haul, one hour, one day at a time, a little progress today, a bit more tomorrow.

anita