Dear Addy:

You are welcome. “How do you even remember this much?” – I often go back and re-read what a member shared days, months and even years earlier. As I re-read, I repeat what I read in my own words. This is how I process information.

“But as I’ve said I’m mostly blocking the outer critics…  I’m trying to be very rational and not just dwell in what everyone’s opinions about me. Because only I know What I’m capable of and What I’ve been through I decide my limits, not other people“- you are doing very well then, congratulations!

“He mostly doesn’t criticize me now. I wouldn’t even say time to time but like rarely. He’s actually saying that in sincere tone. Because he does know I’m doing what I can”– seems like the relationship between you and your father has much improved and … problems resolved. I am pleased, Addy!

anita