Dear Kaya:

You are very welcome, good morning to you and virtual hugs back to you (It would have been nice to hug you in person)!

He sent you an email saying that he will contact you when it is convenient for him (“when the time is right” for him), and you accepted and are willing to wait as long as a few months before asking for your belongings back. Reads to me that (1) you are still partly if not wholly hoping that he will call when (his) time is right and have you back as his girlfriend, and (2)  you are afraid that he will get angry at you and become verbally abusive yet again.

I wish the above 2 things weren’t true, but they are, aren’t they?

anita