Dear anita,

from your descriptions of her, she is indeed a gem!

= yes, that’s why i cant bear it if she decides to leave or detach from me…..

this makes you a gem in a woman’s eyes… I can imagine a young woman will be very interested in a man who thinks she is a gem and who will do anything to make her happy.

= i’ve done this with my previous crushes, but they still leave me…. I did my best at that time, but it doesnt make them stay….

not at this point, you are doing fine!

= so right now, i shouldnt be focusing on “what if the relationship gets bored”? Just focus on what im doing now?

the girl you are dating disagrees. There is a saying: beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, meaning that any judgment of beauty is subjective. You think that your face looks hideous, your sister thinks so.. this girl doesn’t. She probably thinks you are cute.

= But there’s nothing cute about me…. Like there’s none….

If she said i look cute, i wont believe it…. The possible answer for me is that i look average…

Idk how she can convince me, if she really genuinely thinks that i look good/cute

don’t look in that mirror then, look in the mirror that her eyes provide: see how she sees you when she smiles at you, and at that time, when she wiped the sweat off your face.

= Her eyes look genuinely interested on what we’re talking about….. when i saw that eye expression of her, i felt like im dreaming….