Dear Andypandy499:

I hope that you heal and recover from cancer and that your emotional pain will ease soon!

“I did nothing but love, care and support.. her teenage daughter, who I thought I had a good relationship with. It turns out she must have known what was going on and was complicit in her mums lies“- don’t blame the teenage daughter: she has to live with her mother, so she has to be on her mother’s side.

“We lived 150 km apart but met almost twice a month… I went back to the UK…  I just uncovered a trail of lies which made certain suspicions and feelings I had fall into place, weekends she couldn’t make, cancelled meetings... I found out she is living with this guy in Australia… 3 months on the pain is still raw and I still cannot sleep properly and am still searching for answers“- maybe her objective has been for a long time to move away from the country where you were both residing at the time to a western country, to move either to the UK with you or to Australia with the other guy. And so, she played both fields, waiting to see which will lead her to the Promise Land. Is this a possibility?

anita