Hello anita,

Thanks for your reply.

I’m a bit confused though.  You say my sister is having a tough time then list the things I struggle with in the flat.

My sister chose to not have hot water, she chose that.  She chooses not to have the sink fixed.  She chooses to leave her mess everywhere and not clean any pots. Probably because she expects me to do it and because I’m not, she wont either. ..

I’m not sure I can move back. I dont have the energy to pack a van, drive 4 hours, unpack and then drive another 4 hours.

Nothing I can do anymore.. keep asking for support. Never get it.. no point to life anymore