Yes, my sister does live in the same situation as I do, however, it’s her flat and she has the means to change it, I dont.

It’s not that she “didnt arrange for hot water” as you put it.  She deliberately had it turned off and cut off.

Are you saying laziness is a mental health illness?  I have mental health problems, but i still clean up after myself.

Incorrect. It’s a 2 bedroom flat, i have the spare bedroom. She moved into the living room and still has her own bedroom.

My sister gave me somewhere to live. That’s where the support ended.  She didnt acknowledge my illness and the fact i became unable to do as much as i had been doing, instead she got angry with me.

Being autistic, i struggle to make decisions, struggle to do things at the last minute, struggle with a lot of things and i asked for support to help me with these things.

I’ve literally just been contemplating to myself if I’m the selfish obe, because, unlike my sister, i am able to think about other peoples positions and points of view and consider my own actions.

Unfortunately, my sister only sees her own point of view. I dont believe j have got the support I have needed and it has gradually made me worse and worse.

Being Autistic, my brain works in a very different way to neuro typical people.  I’m even reading that neurodiverse peoples brains are far different from each others than neurotypical peoples brains are from each other.

I think I will leave it at that.  You are clearly keen to make assumptions and pass judgement, something I dont find helpful.