Dear Katrine Nielsen:

I am glad to read that you are dedicated to learning! I read your recent posts, and I am confused in regard to your sister. I am wondering if you will be kind enough to clarify my confusion:

Is your sister currently 37 years old, married to a 30 year old man, a mother to a baby boy, living with her husband and son, and appears to have a loving relationships with her parents in law (“At my brother in laws 30th birthday party… my sister’s behaviour of such a loving and caring person and the way his parents were talking about her like, who is this person?… the day we came to see my newborn nephew in August“)?

Is this the same sister about whom you wrote on Sept 13-17, 2020: “my sister (35)..  is brain damage and has been for 23 years due to illness…  She started yelling and screaming in my face, pulling her hair and rolling around on the floor… The biggest issue is her being in a pain all the time. Extreme headaches and her vision is affected by it. So noises and light causes a lot of pain“?

*About a week ago, Dec 4, 2022, you wrote in regard to (a) sister: “her boyfriend won’t look me in the eye when talking to me..“- do you have two (or more) sisters, one has a boyfriend, the other is married; one is disabled and living with your parents, the other lives independently?

anita