Dear TaurusBelle95:

You are very welcome. I wish that explaining things made it instantly a whole lot easier for you!

“Do you think I should tell the wife what is going on?“- good question. If you knew her, if you knew how she thinks and what she believes (do you have any such info?), then you could (and I could have helped you with it) figure out if it’s a good idea to tell her. Maybe the truth will help her. But if you don’t know her and she is a mother to a baby or a toddler- we don’t want a young mother to suffer more stress than she can handle, for her child’s sake. So, I’d say no.

” I’ve tried meditating to quiet my mind but nothing helps“- to stop thinking about him and her, you’ll need to let go of the dream to redo a bad childhood: grieving the childhood you had will help.

anita