Dear Eric:

You are welcome.

“I don’t really know why she’s interested in me…. Maybe she’s just grateful that I came into her life?“- she told you that she is grateful that you are in her life, so it’s true that she is grateful, isn’t it?

“She’s a follower and she looks up to her sister, if her sister said something negative about me, that girl might lose interest in me“- your girlfriend has liked you consistently for a long time. If her liking you was so far conditional on her sister not saying anything negative about you, then so far, her sister did not say anything negative about you. Do you agree with my logic?

“I feel like she texts me differently since her sister went back home to our city few days ago. idk if it’s just my feeling“- I will not at all be surprised that it is just your feeling.

“To avoid exhausting my head, I should just think what’s meant to be will be is it?“- yes, best you can.

“Is relationships like this.. exhausted“- relationships are indeed very exhausting for anyone who suffer from “this overthinking and insecurity” (words from the title of your thread).

“Do I really have to do this much effort?“- no, you don’t have to, really! Do less and relax best you can.

“I suddenly have thoughts…“- too often it’s bad news when you suddenly have thoughts, isn’t it?

“Tomorrow we are going to have a date, I hope she doesn’t suddenly cancel tomorrow’s date because I’m going to overthink a lot if she does that“- I hope that you enjoy tomorrow’s date, and the holidays as well!

I offered you to come up with a list of questions that her sister may ask you, and suggested answers. And you wrote: “I’d be happy if you’d like to arrange (a) few questions, it can be helpful to me“- no need to do it now, I don’t think, because you will be meeting her sister after the holidays, right? And that’s a while from now. At this time, I hope that you are having a relaxing night and that you have a good date tomorrow!

anita