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shookie
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Hi Anita,

It would be nice to have you as a neighbor~  I feel we have a lot in common and I enjoy so much the reads we share~

I have been pet-sitting for a few of my neighbors while they are on their cruises and trips around the world.  They show me pictures and there is so much I feel I am missing.

I have always wanted to have at least 10 blissful years with a person I truly Loved, trusted, and cared for.  Many people don’t know how to communicate these days.  I am so sick of cell phones and texts~

I am so fed up with the 20 yr. man…LOL, His new name…He keeps texting and I have not reached out to him.  Finally, I responded with are your fingers broken as a response to his last text~ Within about a minute he texted again & asked if he could call and I was polite and texted yes.  No longer than laying my phone down he called.  He said do you realize it has been 11 days and 10 hrs. since we have spoken.

He left me a giant Candy Cane on a chair I have outside.  I laughed so hard because I had never seen such a big candy cane.  It was about as round as a silver dollar coin and about 2 feet long.  This morning he left a box of candy.

I don’t really understand him and his thinking.  He leaves so many texts letting me know how busy he is (I really don’t care)

The other night he called & I had fallen asleep listening to Alabama Christmas music.  I cried, it was a good cry thinking of Christmas when I was little and how excited I was about Christmas.  Of course, Christmas was a favorite Holiday for me and my Father.  I Love and miss my mother also it was different with my father.

I don’t talk to many people and my neighbors probably think I am a hermit which I am not.  I don’t like gossip or drama.  I will say I live in a nice neighborhood where I really don’t fit in with most of what I call dime-store millionaires.

Most of the people here can afford to hire people to do their maintenance whereas the women do their little jogging in all of their labled W@#&% clothing while I am in shorts and a tee shirt mowing grass/cleaning my gutters and chain sawing tree limbs so they won’t  hit my house.

I would like to move to Montana, another dream.  I have so much running through my head as to the thoughts of moving.  I have my home and a few acres of land which I am going to sell as soon as spring hits.  I don’t feel I would get a decent price for it now.

I am in a bit of a strange mood today.  I feel a bit lost~

I’ll put a good movie on and try to feel better.

Have a nice evening & I will be in touch soon My Friend~

 

Shookie~