Dear anita,

she may reply late at times, not because she is busy, but because she doesn’t feel well or she is not in the mood. Is it okay with you if, at times, she doesn’t feel well or is not in the mood to text you?

= Yes it’s fine by me, i just hope it is not due to her wanting to leave me…. Because replying text late intentionally could be the first step in leaving or lost of communication is it?

she will act differently not only when she is stressed, but also when she is tired, hungry, sick, sad, happy, worried, etc. I hope that it is okay with you that she doesn’t act the same, all the time. Is it?

= yes, do u think im demanding too much if i always expect her to act the same and texts me “happily” everyday? Because that’s what makes me feel reassured….

Also in about two weeks im going to have a family dinner with her parents on chinese new year eve…. Would u mind helping me with a list of questions to communicate with her parents/sister/brother/sister’s boyfriend?