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Dear helcat
I dont think my parents will change their celebrations, it has been this way for years…
Regarding the “girlfriend”, its getting tiring with her… she’s making me exhausted… last time she said she was busy with thesis, next she said she was busy preparing for chinese new year…
And today when we plan on having a date, she told me she only can meet me for a short while because her parents have a wedding party to attend and she comes with them… Idk if she’s actually “have to” come to the party or not…. If she actually doesnt have to come, then she doesnt prioritize me…
Her excuses are getting annoying lately… i cant take it anymore… and after today’s short while date im planning to stop contacting her… I dont want to text her “happy chinese new year” as its on january 22… Let’s see if she’ll text me first or not….
If she doesnt, we already know she doesnt love mr anymore right?
I’ve been dedicating everything for her, and also she gave me is this…
Maybe i was wrong regarding her as a “gem”