Dear Javairia:

I just checked: no, my arm doesn’t hurt anymore (it did a bit yesterday), thank you for asking!

The situation with your roommate is difficult: you miss the closeness you had with her, and seems to me that you were hoping that the two of you will get closer after your breakup.. but instead, she regularly talks to her crush/ boyfriend on the phone. You asked if I have any suggestions: well, you can ask her to not talk on the phone after a certain hour when you are trying to sleep. Beyond that, I don’t know what to suggest (I wish I did).

I didn’t quite understand the  “Java are you in love?” conversation you had with her… are you hoping for a romantic relationship with your roommate?

anita