Dear helcat,

Is there anything you’ve been interested in but never gotten around to doing?

= Tbh i dont. Like i have no interest in doing anything. It feels like i need to force myself to like something if i wanna have interest in something new.

Naturally, since your partner is very social, I’m sure you will meet more new people and become more comfortable with social interaction in time.

= This is one of the reasons why i have anxiety, that she’s social…. I’m afraid she might meet someone new and she saw that guy is better than me and decides to leave me…. I keep feeling worried every time she went out with her friends….

Moreover, she’s not as enthusiast to meet me like the first three months….

Also do u think if there is an ocassion/event, and i present her a gift (kind of luxury) do u think it might boost our relationship…. Like i wanna show her that she’s secure with me and im serious with her…. And maybe she can be more enthusiast in meeting me again….