Thanks Tee,

yeah any help with my negative mindset will help, I am naturally cautious of people and find it hard to trust, think this is part of the problem with my partner. Sometimes I feel I’m choosing to not trust what she tells me and it’s my issue, but I do think she is withholding about her kid and money regardless.

Im in a pretty negative place at the moment, missing her a lot but keep telling myself not to reach out for the wrong reasons such as just to make me feel better. Stuck in that weird mind loop where I think I will miss her in my life but don’t know if we should be together. It’s having an effect on my general well being, I’m wallowing and dwelling on everything rather than trying to be productive and look after myself.