Hey Tee,

I think I made it obvious at first that I was okay with her behavior but now she may realise that I wasn’t and it might be making her upset because she knows she has to change but is finding it difficult. No she doesn’t want to face the consequences or take responsibility.

So you really think she doesn’t actually want to work on herself from what I’ve told you? She is in a very bad place at the moment.

As I said earlier I can’t save her but I do really feel rejected as an entire person. She didn’t want anything to do with me in the end but we both know it’s for the best.

I’ve definitely come a long way in the last few weeks. I’m going to give myself time but I’d say in another few weeks I’ll be doing a lot better. It’s hard love. Definitely didn’t see any of this coming even after all the red flags I was shown. I hope she does get herself together because I do care for her a lot and feel like one day maybe she would be able to give it a real crack again.

I am going to read through this topic again so I can fully process it all and hopefully it speeds up the healing and let’s me see the facts clearly.

Thanks a lot for all your help again Tee. What a messed up situation it was, I’ll send any updates in the future.