Hi TheltFactor,

I just want to expand on something. When I earlier said that your boyfriend was non-committed but exclusive, I was referring to his behavior of being emotionally not committed to you, since he thought he might find someone better. So in his heart and mind, he wasn’t committed to you, i.e. he didn’t choose you fully. He was exclusive in terms of dating, but emotionally he wasn’t committed.

But now, it seems he got committed emotionally – he said he doesn’t want to let his fear run the show and he doesn’t want to keep pushing you away (emotionally).

So I guess the key factor here is to be emotionally committed – committed in is heart and mind.