Dear Katrine,

good to hear from you! Glad your holiday went well.

Yeah, she doesn’t look at me but just stays quiet, and then start to talk to the others when I’m done.

Well at least she’s not trying to talk over you, but waits till you finish. But it’s strange she’s not looking at you while you speak.

One girl mentioned that she does that so maybe i just haven’t seen it with others.

I guess she does that with others too. I mean, she did it in Venice too, when she wanted to walk off alone, or when she jumped in the first train, leaving the others behind. As you say, it seems she needs a lot of alone time, perhaps because she gets easily triggered by others. Or she is more of an introvert and other people’s company – if it lasts for too long – disturbs her.

In any case, it doesn’t seem like anything to do with you, but really, just her personality and perhaps her sensitivity. I guess you have to accept her as she is…

Yes, hard work paying off. I’m back at my normal shifts and that is really good.

Happy to hear that!

Now I hope to plan A trip to Portugal to visit my guy. I would feel a lot less anxious if I’m sure that he still wants me to come and visit. Being seperated is hard for me, I really miss him.

Are you in touch with him? Are there any signs that he might have changed his mind, or you’re overthinking?