1 year ago my daughter decided to cut me from her life completely.  She had gone on multiple vacations across country with me and my wife.  She had visited our house multiple times.  Over a year ago she and her wife separated and later divorced.  My daughter was along for about a year but then out of the blue met someone and within 3 weeks they were married.  My daughter has said she has had issues with me, her mother, since she was about 13 but for the life of me I can’t figure out what it was nor will she tell me anything.  This past year she told me not to contact her, don’t message, don’t call, don’t write or if I attempt she will call the authorities.  She has blocked me from all social media sites.  She also insisted if I ever wanted to see or talk to her again I would do whatever she insisted.  Well, that was it for me – I told her I also was an adult and nobody tells me what I can or can’t do.  I missed her birthday last year for the first time ever and this alienation hurts something awful.  I find myself crying at odd times.  I just don’t know how to get over this.