Dear Seaturtle:

I too don’t have much time, so I’ll reply further Sat morning, but for now, as to “How was I so badly tricked? there was real love in the relationship right?“- on your part there was real love because you re really honest, and you are capable of feeling empathy for another. On his part, as it is for everyone, his love quality is not separate and independent from the quality (or lack of) his character. His “love” is as good as who he is. More tomorrow.

anita