I can try to be there as a friend if the relationship is the issue. Before her cat passed away she used to put in efforts, sometimes a lot but everything changed after the passing this is why I am still hopeful that she’ll return, she just doesn’t seem like herself anymore ever since the passing and I am unable to see her in this state. Maybe I can try to gift her a new pet but I don’t think that will help in the long run.

Honestly I don’t know what to do anymore or even if there is something I can do, but I would prefer waiting over moving-on from this relationship and the thought that she can do something harmful scares me even more. What would you suggest?