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January 11, 2024 at 1:05 pm
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anita
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Dear Blazkowich:
“I just told her you’ve all the time for your guy friends but when it comes to me you need space, also I vented to her friend how she dumped me just because I offered support when she’s grieving her cat’s loss and her exact wordings… the fact remains the same that I tried to offer support and in-turn I got dumped. It just felt so unfair, like what else I was supposed to do? Watch her suffer alone and do nothing about it?”-
– sadly, your expressed support didn’t come across to her as support. I suppose that you needed her more than she needed you. Does this read true to you, that you needed her more than she needed you?
anita