You shared before that you didn’t push your efforts to help her, that you gave her all the space that she needed, that you were gentle, kind and patient with her… so, no aggression on your part, right?

Yeah, never, even when she used to irritate me I wouldn’t shout at her or badmouth her.

I’ll soon contact her (maybe for the last time) and give it another go but I’ll make it clear that I would want a healthy relationship where communication is the key. I know she’ll refuse but I’ll ask anyway so in future when I look back I can tell myself that I didn’t give up. I want to move on and detach myself from her but am unable to do so, because even if she agrees for giving it another go and her behaviour doesn’t change there’s no use, I can’t waste my time on a person who doesn’t accept my support or atleast acknowledge it, who stonewalls me for days and treats me like I am bothering them. At the end of the day I am not some omnipotent being who’s showering someone with unconditional love and support, I have my own feelings too, I never expected reciprocation from her in these times but she dropped the standards even lower. So I think I should at the same time try to detach myself from this person and look for someone who will actually appreciate me. The only thing which is making me not move-on are the plans we made, the promises, her smile and her voice.