I also think that I may be co-dependant, but as my mom has said to me, I might actually enjoy being sad. I feel as though I can connect to my parents and girlfriend, when I talk to them about it. Could this be why I still am having these thoughts. I don’t know what else to talk with my girlfriend and parents about. I don’t do anything and I go absolutely quiet when I try to talk with them. My mom says I have to do something in my life so I can love myself and be happy. But I am afraid that I might not be as interested In my girlfriend as I used to. I don’t know what’s wrong