Dear ParadoxMusic

I am sorry that other peoples lives that you have encountered shows a negative view of woman’s actions especially in divorce & money. So I give you a little bit of my story to show a different picture. When my husband & I split up I left the area and did not want the family home to be sold so that there would be space for the children to visit their father, he was given unlimited access to the children (which he did not take up  frequently)I paid travel costs every other time even though I did not have too plus would return part of maintenance for the days that he did actually have the children. I did not liquidate my 1/9 th share of the company & my parents did not insist on my husbands outstanding loan to be repaid . My husband was worth approx 3/4 of million all I requested £45,000 as a divorce settlement + £250 pm for the children.

Please consciously choose to look for positive inputs into your life. I wish you all the best with your exams and that you will be able to balance the career path that your parents wish for you with things & people that uplift you & bring you peace & joy.