Dear Jessy:

“I broke up with my ex boyfriend 3 years ago- he is my only relationship so far… When we met, he was…  always transparent… for almost 2 years, not a single word…. Beginning 2024 he reached out, out of the blue… I’m not sure why after all these years he is texting... I’m confused, should I give him a chance or just go figure my life out?”-

– you can ask him about the part I boldfaced above: why after 2 years, did you text me? According to how he answers, you can find out if he is still transparent. This can clarify some of your confusion, so that you can make a good choice for yourself, based on clarity.

What do you think?

anita