Hi Sunny

I’m sorry to hear that you had a couple of arguments with your partner.

Something my partner shared with me was that he likes there to be some positives focused on during disagreements. I wonder if this is something that your partner might find helpful?

Not talking for a few days really isn’t healthy and it’s really not a fair thing to ask of a partner. No wonder you are feeling isolated and disconnected. It’s technically an abusive behaviour called stonewalling.

It’s true, that you could have focused on his first day experience before discussing things. But it seems to me that you’re not the only person dropping the ball if you will. And for such a simple argument starting things off…

It’s kind of escalated massively which, doesn’t seem like your fault either. You might not have been perfect, but you had good intentions of clearing the air. So no, I don’t think it’s all your fault. As my husband says, these things take two people.

Wishing you all the best! ❤️🙏