Hello Laven,

Your post was mostly about how you feel. Very little description of things that happened or were done to you to make you feel this way. So, only can say that it is a sad story and sorry you feel that way. Please tell us when and how did he make promises to marry you or promise marriage? What were the plans? What caused them to go away? Just not call you the next day after sex? Something must have happened??

Someone with little confidence sweeping you off your feet? That is a strange one. If little confidence then how did they sweep you off your feet? Practice person? I was always the sweet guy who wanted the nice girl who never wanted me. Never gave me a chance. Was looked down on .. as not being on their level. No confidence. So, how would I sweep a girl off their feet? Find a practice girl? I feel lucky that I met my wife and we got together. Never a practice girl.

I am sorry. I am a man and do not understand. Sorry, I could not help. Wishing you the best.