Dear Alex:

“She’s admitted to have tried casual sex but finds its gross and empty“- and yet, for 20 years she’s been directing gross and empty (porn, the epitome of casual sex).

“It’s some kind of paradox“- it is, isn’t it.

“When we are in a good place, she is super nice to me and says things like I have such a calming effect on her and that I’m so good for her. But all my goodness got away at daybreak when she switches her focus on work”-maybe she should have a career change, from the gross and empty to something she values. Maybe she’ll then feel better about herself, about you, and about life.

anita