Hi Anita – 10pm here on Monday (east coast US).  I cancelled her flights for the trip and also found a friend that is coming with me so I’m looking forward to still enjoying the trip.  I leave on Wed the 5th in the AM.   As for her pretty much a day of no communication.   She did earlier this evening ask if I wanted to talk and I say “no”.  Then I just updated her on a couple things that she needed to do to take over some of her bills that were grouped into mine.    I think she knows there isn’t anything she can say that will convince me to change my mind.  She denies everything and things I’m overreacting.   However this time i’m staying strong and doing what needs to be done.   Hope you are well and thanks again for all the positive posts!

Meatball