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ParadoxMusic
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Dear Tee,

“Oh wow! A faithful friend he is… And how did you find out? From B?” 
Got screenshots of their conversation on Instagram, but honestly don’t know who to trust anymore. The amount of anger that I have boiling inside me makes me want to break him, but I made a promise to his mother to keep him safe. So now I have to walk around with more anger and hate in my heart, while pretending to be good friends with him.

Already called B out for being a narcissist a while back, but that argument didn’t go anywhere. She is just too stubborn. I am here trying my best to stay calm and understanding and she just pushes all the wrong buttons. And then I burst when I couldn’t handle her disrespect and I started being verbal abusive to her when she crossed the line with her disrespect. I tolerate insults toward me but don’t expect me to stay calm if she starts insulting my parents, and I fell right into her trap: she now says I am the one who didn’t change and that she was the one who had to put up with my verbal abuse.

“Perhaps you want to peak into one of those videos that I mentioned above. I think you’d recognize B very easily…” Even if I watched those videos and identified B as a narcissist, I still have to put up with her until I get my money back. I have to endure whatever she throws at me, because all of this could be an act to pressure me into just cutting ties with her entirely, which would mean I won’t get my money back.