Update:

And the saga continues.  Two weeks ago my brother had a birthday party for my niece. Everyone was invited.   We were all there except Amy and her bf.  My sister n law said she had texted her earlier that morning asking if she was coming. No response.  Then right when we were getting ready to eat,  Amy and her bf walk in.  Me and my family were in the living room along with other guests, and Amy walked past us and did not say one word and made her way into the kitchen with her bf who is a drunk all the time, to talk to her sister and then made her way to the dining room table and sat there.  Not once did she say anything to us.  Even her sister and their mother made a comment saying how unsociable she has become .  I whispered and told them, I will not text or msg her and i think its very rude and selfish of her not to say HI to me or my family or some of the guests.  I also said ever since she got a bf, she has pushed everyone aside.   Me and my family left after the birthday cake was served.  As we were walking out, she said something and i completely ignored her and left.

Then, today I saw she posted on face book a meme saying “I would rather paint the house with a q tip, thank worry about who is not talking to me”.    I knew that meme was geared towards me.   I didn’t respond.  How childish and petty.  And of course there were people commenting.  She is always drama drama drama.  If its not about her, she doesn’t care.  Her sister is the same way.   I am to the point  that i just need to let it go.  But it is hard , especially when your brother is married to Amy’s twin sister and Amy and her bf are at every single family function.  Which makes it uncomfortable knowing how she is.  And I cannot go to any of the functions because thats the only time I see my nieces and nephew.      The only option I have is just to ignore her.   And for her to post memes like that on facebook….she needs to grow up!

My brother is having fathers day dinner at his home.  I am hoping Amy and her bf will not be there.  Amy and her sister’s dad past away earlier this year.   If she isn’t there, then i will talk to my brother on how to deal with this situation, which is childish and petty.